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A Story Of A Perfect First Kiss

July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment

I hurriedly came back from school and I heard dad shouting as usual, “That enough. You are going to have someone teach you Math and you better get good grades this term.” Who cares! I thought. As far as I reckoned, I was going to kiss my tutor good bye.

The tutor turned to be a raving beauty with the most enigmatic eyes I had ever seen. Her name was Christine. She was 18 years old, a high school senior, and a couple of years older than me. The first day I saw her, I was flipped. The most interesting part was that she was way ahead in intelligence and poise than those no-brainer bimbos in my school. Christine’s eyes would seem to twinkle with glee whenever I was able to solve a trigonometric problem. I used to take special interest in the subject because of her presence. Soon, I found that I was miserably in love with her. I realized the importance of my feelings for her, when she could not see through my final exams due to her appendicitis operation.

She did not come to my place for a couple of weeks. My exams were over and she came over to my home, one day, during my vacations. She looked gorgeous in her pink halter top and I could make out that she had missed me for quite some time. She was in my room for some time and we decided to watch television. We were watching ‘The Wonder Years’ and the theme was about kissing. Towards the end of the serial, we watched Kevin Arnold kissing his girlfriend Delores.

There was something electrifying about the scene. I don’t know what it was; may be it was the fact that I could relate to the protagonist Kevin, who was also a high school student like me. Or it was because of Christine presence. As the characters kissed in deep oblivion, I found myself stealing a peek at Christine. She seemed transfixed at that scene which was complimented with a romantic music in the background. Out of the blue, she looked at me and then averted her gaze. Soon the serial was over and the credits rolled.

I looked at her and asked her, “How was it?” She nodded shyly “It was interesting. How did you find it?” I laughed, “The kiss was terrible”

She peered at me.” What do you mean, I didn’t find anything wrong in it. It was perfect.”

I stared at her. “How do you know if it was the perfect kiss?”

“Well,” she stuttered. “It was nicely done and there was a beautiful innocence in it. So it was perfect, I guess” I further probed her, “Christine, How do you determine a perfect kiss. Have you been kissed before?” She smiled. “Yes, my ex-boyfriend kissed me a couple of times. What about you?”

I replied, “Not me. I don’t know even know how they lock their lips…Don’t your noses come in the way? Err. How do you guys breathe?”

She burst out laughing, “It is not all that difficult, if it is done with love. I am sure you will come across a girl who will give you a perfect kiss.”

I smiled, “I don’t think so Christine. I have never kissed anyone before and I know I would mess it up and any girl would be crazy to be kissed by me” She held my hand. “It is not that. Kisses don’t have to be perfect. There is no technique as such for a good kiss. The first kiss is not always perfect but it is really endearing. It is very special.”

I asked her, “What happened to your boyfriend? Do you mind if I ask?”

For the first time, I was asking something which was personal. I just felt like punching myself in the stomach for having asked that question. It was evident from the moistness in her eyes that she did not want to talk about it. “We broke up, because he found a more kissable, good looking girl, I guess.” I looked at her straight in the eye. As if reading my thoughts, she said, “Even I don’t have the answer to that question, dear.”

I changed the subject and asked her if she could join me for the movies tomorrow. She accepted it with a slight reluctance. I had dressed my best for the occasion. After the delightfully entertaining movie, we went to a crowded restaurant. Christine was getting uncomfortable with the cacophony. “Let’s go some place, quiet,” she said.

We went to the beach. It was 10 in the night. I had called up home and told my mom and dad that I was out with friends. Christine looked perturbed. She was scheduled to go to Amsterdam to meet her relatives. I assured her that I would walk her home in some time. I had the best time of the evening with her, where we talked on end about everything from movies to relationship, from her family to mine. She told me that she had never found anyone so childish, easy going and understanding like me. She was leaning toward me and she was playing with her locks as she told me about the interesting mess-ups I would make with my Math, when she had started teaching me, initially. Soon it was eleven. She had to leave. It was evident that she would know be in the Amsterdam for a couple of months.

Suddenly all conversation seemed to stop. Our eyes seemed to communicate to each other about the longing we felt for each other. I was longing to kiss her. My heart was thumping and I was about to ask her, “Can I kiss you Christine?’ But I stopped myself. It seemed foolish to ask. The silence between us may have been just for a minute but it seemed like a huge span of time. I felt as if that the voice of silence was urging me to act upon the situation. I just instinctively kissed her on her forehead, as I brushed her hair lovingly. She seemed to like my soft caresses. She seemed irresistible. I took a deep breath. There was an emotional vulnerability about her, so tender that it seemed to exude through her eyes. I gently put my hands around her waist and pulled her toward me. I ran my fingers through her hair and looked in her eyes. I cupped her beautiful face in my hands, slowly leaned toward her and kissed her sensuously on her cheek, making way slowly to her lips. I found myself saying, “I don’t know what the perfect kiss is but these lips are perfectly kissable”.

She was taken over by the fact that that this boy had instantly transformed into a man in charge with passion riding his senses. As our lips met slowly, her eyes seemed to close as her mouth accepted me. I followed suit, closed my eyes and got immersed in the pleasure of my first kiss. We were oblivious of the happenings around us, as we were so taken up with each other, so enveloped in each others arms that we did not want this moment to end. Her lips were soft and smooth like rose petals. I gently teased her tongue with mine and she began to push her tongue into mine. Slowly the kiss became more urgent and frantic. Her lips guided me intelligently as her tongue began to probe and play with mine. With much reluctance, she broke the kiss, “Guess we should be leaving,” I looked at her with moist, swollen lips and urgent eyes. She appeared a bit shaken with the sudden flow of events. We kissed again for some time and then we mutually broke away as I held her hands in mine. I looked deep in her eyes and quipped, “I will drop you”

We walked slowly. As we came to her home, she smiled and shyly looked at me. “It did not look like it was your first kiss.”

I smiled, “All thanks to my teacher” She blushed, “I have never felt this way before, you kiss really well. Like I said, the first kiss is not always messy. Sometimes, it could be perfect also. You just need the right kind of person.”

I pecked her on the cheek, “You are that right kind of person, Christine. I am crazy about you” She kissed me back, “And I am in love with you too, Bye” I watched her walk away to her home. I found happiness like I had never experienced before. Christine left the following morning to Amsterdam. She returned after a couple of months and we made love. It was the beginning of a beautiful relationship which never seemed to end. Thanks to the first kiss!

By: Hunter Crowell

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French Kissing – Simple Steps to Kiss With Confidence

July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment

French kissing is personal, its erotic and it 80% of women said they wish their partner kissed more. Furthermore 51% of women in a recent poll said that they had at some point in their life ditched their partner because they were a bad kisser!

If you want to know how to give a mind blowing kiss and kiss with confidence, then here are some simple tips to make you a great kisser.

1. Relax and Concentrate

If you are to give a great French kiss, you must be relaxed. One of the biggest turn offs is being kissed by someone who is tense and anxious – the mood is immediately transferred to your partner and is a total passion killer.

So relax your body and clear your mind so you can concentrate on only one thing – the kiss itself.

2. Use Your Body

As you can gather from point 1, you must relax and this means relaxing your body. You should also use your body get close to your partner and press yourself against them.

Make sure you use your hands, to hold and caress your partner and touch their back and the buttocks.

While a French kiss transmits your feelings through your mouth, you will add a lot to the experience if you show how much you want and desire your partner, by being close to them and caressing them.

3. Receiving and Responding

Next, you need to tilt your head to one side and gently insert your tongue into your partner’s mouth and this is where the fun begins!

There is actually no right way to French kiss – the actual kiss itself depends on what you and your partner like in terms of tongue movement and pressure. Some people like lots of aggression and speed and others like slower gentler kisses and some of course like a combination of both.

Start gently and see how your partner responds and simply go with the flow.

French kissing should simply develop naturally and you and your partner will be transmitting what type of kisses you like. How they kiss you and how you kiss them will then flow naturally.

No matter what type of kiss you are giving your partner, fast or slow, gentle or hard, you need to vary the technique. Slow down speed up and tease your partner by taking your tongue away and so on.

If you add variety, you will add expectancy and excitement and remember, predictability in French kissing is a total turn off.

4. Breaks

When kissing you will need to have breaks of air, but don’t let the passion die! Keep body contact keep stroking and caressing and target one of the best erogenous zones – the neck.

Kissing of the neck is one of the biggest turn ons for both men and women so get your partner moaning with pleasure by targeting this area. Another great area to target are the ear lobes. The ear lobes are a mass of nerve endings and nibbling and kissing them is again an immense turn on

5. The Perfect French Kiss

Is different for everyone, but making the perfect French kiss is easy to achieve:

Just relax, respond to what you receive, use your body and use breaks for air, to transmit your desire and passion.

A French kiss should develop naturally and the above tips will ensure that it does and you will kiss with confidence.

By: Sacha Tarkovsky

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French Kissing Techniques

July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Find here 7 steps to great French kissing.

1) Good oral hygiene is probably the most important first step when it comes to kissing. Ideally, you’d have your teeth checked out. Good teeth health will reduce bad breath. Make sure you get the tongue really well. You can find many good tongue brushes out there. Just like anything else, preparation matters alot.

2) Never be overexcited when it comes to kissing. Be patient. Your lover/date will feel it. Detecting signals isn’t always easy. Try to figure out what your lover is trying to tell you with their body language. Kissing isn’t only about using your lips and tongue!

3) At the right time for you to kiss, you may feel excitement. Just don’t over think, or over stress. Keeping good eye contact can make you look more confident. A smile at the other person at this moment is great. Not only is it very sexy, but it also lets the other person know that you are interested in them.

4) It’s time to get close. Close enough to feel each other’s breath. The moment is now.

5) Lean in forward slowly. Start off with a few gentle kisses, and build up both of your comfort levels. Usually, it is considered respectful to keep your eyes closed during kissing. I don’t think it’s a rule. Do what works best for you. Once you pass the kissing comfort level, it may be time for a bit more. There is no reason to stay at kissing each other lips.

6) When you approach the lips for the French kiss, fully kiss on the lips and use your tongue to gently part the lips of the other person. Continue the gentle kisses with the tip of your tongue. Don’t be afraid to slowly move it around without going in too deep.

7) When it comes to your tongues, you now know that you have both passed the comfort level of lips kissing. You can now start feeling the sides of your tongues. Maybe even start turning your tongues around each other’s tongues. You don’t want to be doing this too fast. It would just seem weird. And doing it too slowly would make you look tongue numb.

A few important tips: don’t move too fast if the person doesn’t feel at ease. not everyone enjoys French kissing at first. Don’t over use your tongue. The person will most likely not like feeling like an ice cream cone.

Besides this, you can only improve your kissing over time.

By: Rony UK

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How To French Kiss

July 5, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Learning how to French kiss isn’t difficult at all, the hard part is learning how to French kiss well. The basics of French kissing include the lead-in, the kiss itself, and the aftermath. Each of these sections will be covered to help you learn how to French kiss like you’ve been doing it your whole life. The perfect French kiss can turn a simple date into a long and happy life together. The perfect kiss can also turn you into a wanted man very quickly, so lets get started.

THE LEAD-IN

The moments that guide you into the French kiss is called the lead in. If you’re on a date, don’t begin planning strategy until after dinner. During dinner you’ll get to know your date and figure out the perfect location for your first kiss. During this time also you’re setting the stage so you can figure out how to kiss the girl and what she likes. When you figure out the perfect time to go in for the kiss, you could stare into her eyes, pretend to go in for a kiss and see her reaction, or you could kiss her innocently on the cheek or forehead. Then when the moment is absolutely perfect and you know it is what she wants, lead inwards. Try parting your lips gently and go slow. Be sure you have gotten a clear signal from your date before you continue.

THE KISS

When you first learn how to French kiss, the follow through is the most difficult part to gauge. Important things to remember during the kiss include breathing, tongue movement, and hand positioning. In movies, there’s a reason the characters turn their heads to the side; to prevent passing out during a steamy make-out session. Your tongue plays a very important role here to. Do not just shove your tongue in her mouth, roll it gently around with hers until you find a good rhythm. Learning how to French kiss also means figuring out what to do with those hands during the kiss. The cardinal rule of French kissing is that your hands don’t wander below the neck until you get the OK from your kissing partner. Good hand placement is cupping the face, or caressing the back of the head. Whatever you choose, make sure you’re gentle.

THE AFTERMATH

The aftermath is just as important as the kiss; how you behave after the kiss lets your partner know how you felt about it. After a hot and heavy kissing session, you can’t be expected to say much, but what you do say will determine if you’ll get the chance to show off your French kissing skills again. Getting the moment right after the kiss is a key element in knowing how to French kiss with class. If your kiss is at the end of the evening, give a farewell peck on the lips along with a promise to call or if all goes really well, you might just want to set up the next date.

Learn what to do if your kissing partner invites you inside at http://www.Speed-Seduction-Secrets.com/freereport

By: Damian DeAngelo

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A KISS

July 5, 2009 | Leave a Comment

A KISS

Learning the art of kissing is a must for men in order to promote intense emotion and desire from women. This is why at Gabby Luv at XXX Adult Love many tips to help promote a healthy relationship are always offered. Kissing is not a given and most Men really overlook this important area when dealing with women.

Kissing is something that I could talk about over and over again and never get bored. Nothing is better than a good kiss. People aren’t born a good kisser. The only thing that will help is education and practice. Let’s talk about different ways that you can kiss. Take some notes and practice on your woman. She will love the new attention.

First there is the domination .This is a kiss with some power behind it. It can say many things. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. Use this kiss if there has a lot of time spent apart . We all have had those strong moments where we feel like we have to kiss someone. The great thing about a kiss is, it is easy and fast too do. You can get your sexual frustration out without having to take off your clothes. The element of surprise is what makes a woman very excited sexually.

While kissing her, roam her body with your hands. Take time to explore every area of the woman’s body. This will make her go crazy before you can even begin to think about what your next move is. Before kissing a woman make sure your breath smells okay. Men don’t kiss her after eating a tuna fish sandwich. If in doubt, go brush your teeth.

The above are just a few basics in pleasing a woman . Kissing is the true aphrodisiac for a healthy relationship and an art that must not be overlooked.

By: Gabby Laine

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