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July 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Trust me nobody will tell you if you are a bad kisser but they will tell everybody else. Good kissing is really important. That is why you need to get it right. No one wants to be drooling all over somebody’s face.

Who doesn’t want to be a good kisser? Kissing is the first intimate touch. In actuality it is the first impression of intimacy. We all know how important first impressions are – that is why being a good kisser will get you lots of brownie points in the intimacy department.

What Creates A Good Kiss?

A good kiss uses no one technique. Both the lips and tongue need to be immersed. A good kiss is wonderful. You know how we all like to be touched. Caressing and kissing together paired with impulses of passion will really get your partner going.

Good kissing is sensitive and all inclusive. You use both your tongue and mouth to simulate your partners senses. You can caress the inside of her lips with your tongue while touching your lips against theirs. Then while putting your hands through your partners hair you really stimulate the senses.

After it is over there is that wow moment where you look one another in the eyes with a deep feeling of connection and pleasure. We all know that look when you really stimulate your partner with passionate yet sensitive kissing. This is the real peak of intimacy – get it right and everyone concerned will experience the ultimate ecstasy.

A Few Essential Tips

Sometimes it is difficult to maintain a great kiss when you are trying to shuffle your feet around to move in closer after you start. Move in close to your partner before you kiss them. By being close in the beginning you will not end up in an uncomfortable position.

Make sure that you are being gentle and follow their signals to know when to kiss with more passion. Sometimes passion can make you be a little rough, and while a stronger kiss has its place that usually isn’t from the start. Treat your partners lips as if they were the most delicate thing you could imagine.

If you can master being relaxed while you are kissing, even if you are a little nervous about your technique, you will become a much better kisser. When you are tense anywhere on your body it will show in your kiss.

Make sure that you relax and enjoy the moment.

By: Randy Cartwright

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4 Step-by-Step Tips To Kissing A Girl Without Awkwardness

July 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment

You’ve eyed this girl that you wanted to kiss for some time now and you want to bring it pass the “friend’s zone boundary.” You need to be able land a kiss or at least get her to kiss you before she sees you in any kind of romantic state. Here’s how to do it.

1. Don’t Have Bad Breath

This is one thing that you need to be aware before you even talk to her. You may not know that the dryer your mouth is the worse of a breath you have. If you have bad breath, chances are the girl will not want to kiss you. So before you go to a club, bar, restaurant, or somewhere to hang out with her, bring a pack of gum or mints in your back pocket or drink something to moisten your mouth and have a sexy breath ready for her.

2. Get Her Alone

You want to get her and you to be alone for a couple of reasons. It reduces less pressure from other people seeing. If others were eyeing you guys out, then you might have images of them laughing or making fun of you if you mess up. By being alone with her, not only is this kind of pressure gone, but there will be more room to create romantic tension and land the kiss on her while making the kiss all the more memorable.

3. Choosing the Right Moment

Once you are alone with her, you need to pick a moment where it is the right time to kiss her. This is crucial because you don’t want to randomly kiss her and make her feel like it was unexpected. But choosing the right moment should be easy also. You could probably tell when the right moment is depending on how well you have built rapport with her which may include ways of making her laugh and playfully flirting with her. Be patient. The opportunity will come. Once you see a moment where you guys share a peak of emotion, whether it is sharing a random experience that both of you guys can relate to or sharing a laugh, it is time to land the kiss.

4. Relax and Softly Go For It

When you guys have established a moment where both of you guys know that the kiss is going to happen – usually this is right after you guys have shared something like laughing together and there is a silent kind of tension – then it is time to land a kiss. Relax, look at her and cock a slight smile. If her eyes aren’t looking anywhere else but yours, then she is sending a signal to you that she is ready to be kissed. Tilt your head a little bit, lean in, and softly kiss her on the lips. This entire moment should take no more than ten seconds. If she slightly opens her mouth, then you can mingle your tongue with hers. Don’t thrust it out there. Just do it enough where you can feel the tip of her tongue and play with it a little.

By: Tristan Lee

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Kissing 101, Kiss Better Than Anyone

July 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment

If you believe kisses play a significant role in foreplay, then you are dead right. However you cannot forget the power of those sweet kisses after a session of lovemaking. Your woman cherishes those intimate moments when you hold her close to you and take her in your arms. She likes it when you gently prod her face toward you and kiss her, hugging her as she falls into sleep. The best kisses are after love-making when you softly kiss between her eyes, on the tip of her nose and kiss languidly but sharply on her lips.

 

A woman’s mouth is a cavern of pleasure. No one can beat the French kiss in its zenith of passion. It needs no introduction. You can experiment with kiss by taking a small piece of juicy fruit like strawberries, grapes, little pieces of mango and placing it between your lips. Kiss her on her mouth and nibble one half of the piece of the fruit while she nibbles on the other half, till it breaks into two pieces and the juice percolates into each other’s mouths. Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along your partners lip whether it is the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Women find it increasingly erotic when you suck on their lower lip while kissing.

 

My friend Lisa describes the nip kiss to be quite erotic. She especially enjoyed it when her partner gently nibbled on her lips during the lip-locking session. You have to be careful not to bite her too hard. Also very seductive and imaginative is the reverse kiss. In this type of kiss, you have to kiss her, starting from her scalp. As you explore southward, you have to suck her bottom lip in your mouth and suck and nibble on it gently. Your girl will throw her arms around you and let you kiss her more.

 

Experiment with the kisses. That way, your girl will never leave you. You are continuously incorporating innovation in your technique which keeps her perpetually wet for you. A woman is an embodiment of pleasure and to give honor only to her lips will be a tad unfair. Her toes deserve as much attention as her lips. Suck her toes and though it will tickle, she will find it amusing and fun. To give a toe kiss, you have to gently suck the toes and then lightly start kissing the foot. Massage the base of the foot as you kiss her there. Have you wondered how it feels when you pop a piece of ice in your mouth and then draw little circles using your mouth around her belly button? You can vary your speed and pace as you apply the pressure of your mouth and ice on her belly and navel. It is very intoxicating for her as the ice melts due to the warmth of her body and the cool water trickles and runs through her bellybutton to her crotch in a languid trail. You can trace the path of water with your tongue and go southward till she moans in pleasure. You can use the ice and pass it with your tongue to her mouth and have a cool steamy French kiss.

 

You can lick her lips till they turn warm and then gently blow on them and the hot and cold mix will make her get mad with passion. Since most women have sensitive regions in their neck, nibbling up and down her neck and the chin can arouse her. One of my friends acknowledges that of the most surprises, she loves the one in which her boyfriend comes from behind her, hugs her and kisses the top of her shoulder. Your woman knows you have a favorite choice of beverage and drink. Do you want her to taste it? You can make her taste it from your lips. Take a small sip of your favorite drink and leave a little bit on your lips. Kiss her and let the taste get transferred to her tongue and lips. Gently keep your lips brushed against her neck, behind the ear. Then send a sexy shiver through her spine by gently humming and vibrating your lips and cheeks up and down her neck, on her cheeks and lips.

 

Game for sexy love bites? If she is the sexy tigress, you are the hunter. Sneak behind her when she is busy. Quite out of surprise, grab her from behind and gently bite on her neck. Make sure to growl too and it will surprise them and keep her in splits later. Turn her around and look deep in her eyes. Slowly but softly run the tip of your tongue along her lips as if you are licking it. Then kiss her upper lip and then gently suck her lower lip. Make sure that you let your tongue caress hers as you immerse in the depths of the kiss.

 

 

By: Arunraj V.S.

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How to Tongue Kiss – the Secrets of Making Out

July 14, 2009 | Leave a Comment

How to tongue kiss is something that makes so many people nervous that they will not get it right.  But how to tongue kiss is something that will occur naturally to many.  Very many.  For those who have problems with how to tongue kiss, there are just a few things I can point out that will try to help you.

How to tongue kiss, or French kiss, is something that has a few steps before it.  Steps such as brushing your teeth or taking a breath mint.  The idea of putting your tongue inside of someone’s mouth can be a very exciting thought but think about what it would be like if they have bad breath.  Not nearly as much fun is it?  So I’m sure that it would be the same for them.  You don’t have to keep a brush and toothpaste with you at all times, but it doesn’t hurt to keep a pack of breath mints nearby.  Gum is always an option to help with your bad breath problems also. 

Oral hygiene is important when you learn how to tongue kiss but there are other things that you need to keep in mind such as paying attention to your date.  If you keep an eye on how well they are enjoying themselves before you want to kiss them, that can gauge whether or not a kiss is even an option.  If you look at your date and they are doing nothing but watching the clock or the door, you might not want to show them the lessons you’ve learned on how to tongue kiss.  But, if you look at your date and see that they are actually having a good time then that would be the time to show off your skills.

When you learn how to tongue kiss keep in mind that you will want to tilt your head so that your noses aren’t bumping into each other.  Tilt your head just enough so that your nose will rest on the others cheek.  No need tilting your head so that your ear ends up on your shoulder. 

When you learn how to tongue kiss you will need to think what you will do with your hands.  They should just be dangling at your sides like limp noodles.  You can use one of them to caress the back of their neck while the other traces their chin right before you start kissing.  Or you can use one of them to pull your date to you while the other brushes the hair back from their face.  There are so many things that you can do with your hands instead of just letting them hang to your sides.

Last but not least in my lessons for you to learn how to tongue kiss is that you need to pay attention to your body language.  To have someone want to kiss you, you need to let your date know that you are interested in them.  You can do this by paying attention to whether or not they seem to enjoy the date so far.

By: Leslie Love

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What you Must Know When Moving in for the First Kiss

July 13, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine whether or not you are a good lover. If you cannot kiss, chances are you are lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable to women.

I have a lot of female friends and let me tell you, whenever they first kiss man the first thing they do is tell everyone they know how it was. One of the first questions asked to a woman after a date (sometimes the first question) is: “So, did you kiss?” If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by “What it good?”

You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my kissing advice , you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don’t know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think I am assuming that you believe you already know how to kiss girls properly. From what I’ve heard through my female friends, however, chances are you do not know everything.

Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will have her re-evaluating any pre-judgments she may have had about you. You could give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and smart, but if you give her a bad kissing experience she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs to you.

Women want to be with a man who can make them feel as though they are the sexiest woman alive, and this cannot be accomplished if you cannot kiss. She will also think you don’t give a damn because excellent kissing advice is everywhere and finding effective kissing tips is very easily found – if you look for it.

Learning how to kiss girls goes far deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips on her, though. In order to blow any woman away with your lips you have got to know when and how to execute those kissing tips . The mood and timing play a major factor and if not carefully executed it won’t matter whether you are a kissing master because she cannot fully enjoy it!

Men are so much different than women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss a woman he is interested gives him, even if it’s a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who couldn’t kiss worth a damn because we men are animals. Plus, most men, along with myself, believe they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.

Women, on the other hand, are far more picky. If they are not impressed or are repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never get into a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he’s doing and believe they should never have to teach him about kissing. After all, in a woman’s mind a bad kisser is a man who’s not sensual – and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.

Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss for that matter, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.

Building Anticipation

One of my favorite kissing tips I have used over the years is building anticipation. If you are receiving positive signals from a girl and are almost 100% sure she would like you to kiss her, hold off. Anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.

There are so many things a man has to do before going in for a kiss and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow her socks off. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.

Be Kissable

A man has got to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, soft, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen out on a date with dry, chapped, and cracked lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don’t care how attractive you are, if you’re lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before you go out with a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don’t mind building somewhat of a dependence on the stuff, use it all the time!

Prevent Or Mask Bad Breath

So you’ve got nice lips already, do you? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there is something else you should always ask yourself: “How does my breath smell?” People with bad breath rarely know that they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day you should always bring breath mints when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because teeth are not the culprit that cause bad breath.

Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to defeat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink a lot of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from getting dry, and a dry mouth smells a lot worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must be followed always because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You fail. Women are very sensitive to smells and bad breath will have them turning away and running out the door faster than a bad out of hell.

Be Sure She Is Ready To Be Kissed

Even if you have the nicest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you have to know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and signals women send so I recommend you become familiar with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being turned away from a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is really easy to know if they are kissable.

If you think a woman is sending signals that she can be kissed, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don’t rush into a kiss, especially first kisses, even you’re receiving positive vibes. Like I said earlier, building anticipation is very effective and picking the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set you up and help you execute, but it is ultimately up to you to decide if the time is right.

Move In For The Kiss

Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn’t expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.

Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don’t go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I’m sure that women find it even more bizarre.

Be Gentle

The first kiss must be gentle. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don’t be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman’s throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.

After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn’t move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.

Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss

Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don’t start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she’ll think you’re just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don’t just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: “I don’t want to miss even a millimeter of your lips.”

Relax And Breathe

Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you’ll end up suffocating if you’re into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.

Touch Her While Kissing

One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.

Don’t Just Kiss Her Lips

After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don’t overdo it though – you are not a dog.

Say Sweet Nothings

You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you’ve had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you’ve ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into french kissing or even sex. Learning how to french kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won’t get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.

The kissing tips I’ve outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.

By: Jesse Allen

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