French Kissing – How to Be the Perfect Kisser!
July 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment
In a poll 90% of women said that they wish their partners kissed them more, but what makes a great kiss and you the perfect kisser?
Here are some basics on french kissing, the history of kissing, why we do it, why we enjoy it and how to give a kiss to remember.
Kissing can express friendship, emotional attachment or can be extremely arousing, depending on the ways it’s done.
Why do we kiss?
Kissing probably derived from ancient times, with food being transferred from the mother’s to her baby’s mouths.
This lip contact developed into a way for mothers to show love to their children. This then developed and became a way to show both love and desire.
What’s the difference between a kiss that falls flat and one that makes you feel weak at the knees? Well a kiss wont but a french kiss will!
Before we look at what goes into a great French kiss, let’s review some basics:
What is a French kiss?
It is simply a kiss where the tongue is put inside your partner’s mouth and vice versa.
French kiss basics
1. When you French kiss, be careful to tilt your head to one side and your partner does the same, so now we have no clash of noses!
2. Make sure you have good oral hygiene and your teeth are well kept. If there not, your partner will not enjoy kissing you so much or worse may not want to kiss you at all.
3. The mouth and teeth create a smile and that is extremely attractive and makes people want to kiss even more, so make sure yours is in good shape.
Here are some great tips to help you enjoy French kissing.
1. Emotional & Physical connection.
If you kiss someone you really like you will add emotion to passion and the kiss will be extremely dynamic.
When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotions it’s a dynamite combination.
2. Relax Relax Relax!
If you are nervous, you are tense and become stiff and this will ruin a kiss.
When you’re worried about how your partner will feel about you kissing them you won’t be able to enjoy the kiss as you should.
Your apprehension will be felt by your partner.
If you relax you can go with the flow and respond naturally to your partner, which makes a natural connection.
3. Go with the flow
As stated above adapt to your partner and try different kinds of kisses.
Vary the speed and pressure of your kisses.
Move from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, the latter is an extremely erotic area and a kiss on the neck after kissing on the lips, is guaranteed to drive your partner wild.
4. Kiss – respond – flow
The best kisses have a natural flow to them.
They vary from gentleness, to more aggressive mouth and tongue contact, with pauses for breath in between.
Note: Nothing is worse than someone who is kissing you and they don’t allow you time to catch your breath.
Let your kiss find a natural rhythm flowing between gentleness and raw passion.
5. Very Important Don’t be stiff!
If your body is stiff and you simply kiss with your mouth you are making a big mistake!
Let your body loosen and move gently, use your hands and legs to brush against your partner and let your body flow and move, just like your kissing.
So How do you become a perfect kisser?
Well the key points to keep in mind are:
You should be relaxed and simply communicate with your partner and a natural flow or rhythm will develop.
Kissing is natural and anyone can give or receive a mind blowing kiss.
Relax, let thinks come naturally and let your passion, your body and lips and lips communicate and you will enjoy an amazing French kiss and so will your partner.
By: Sacha Tarkovsky
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The History of Kissing
July 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment
No one really knows how it all started. Oneless-than-romantic theory is that it was originally a preamble to the act of regurgitation. In the days before Heinz baby food, spoons and Moulinex blenders, cave mothers fed their young offspring by chewing morsels of food, liberally drenched with saliva, and poking the masticated mess into their mouths with their tongues.
Anthropologists pooh-pooh this theory saying that, if this was the case, mouth kissing would have gone on in all societies and eras, which it did not. In parts of Japan, Siberia and among the Eskimo culture, rubbing noses was, until modern times, the only kind of kissing that went on. Certain ancient Finnish tribes believed kissing to be distasteful and indecent, even though they happily bathed naked together. In Asia, for centuries, the bow was the traditional greeting and kissing would only go on in private. In Roman times, kissing was an act of homage used to denote status, ranked by the body parts someone was permitted to kiss. Important nobles kissed cheeks or hands while lesser mortals had to make do with feet kissing.
However, somehow, lip contact caught on and soon became more adventurous. According to Chinese Tao tradition, a perfect balance of yin and yang is only achieved with an exchange of “liquid jade” – more prosaically-known as saliva. Or what we would call a French kiss.
“I have found men who didn’t know how to kiss. I’ve always found time to teach them.” – Mae West
Kissing, in the days before toothpaste and dental floss, must have been a grim affair. To make it more palatable, young maids would carry a clove-studded apple when courting, exchanging a bite for a kiss. The apple helped to clean the suitor’s teeth and the cloves to sweeten his breath. Perhaps Clark Gable should have taken a leaf out of that particular history book when filming Gone With the Wind. Reportedly, his screen lover Vivien Leigh didn’t want to kiss him because he had halitosis.
Kissing has not always been socially acceptable. In 16th century Naples, it was an offence that carried the death penalty. In Hartford, Connecticut, an old law still makes it illegal for a man to kiss his wife on a Sunday. And in Indiana there used to be a law preventing men with moustaches from kissing, presumably on the grounds of hygiene.
Countless poems, odes and books have been written on the subject of kissing. One of the lesser-known works is The Art of Kissing, written by Hugh Morris in 1936. The book analyses every aspect of the kiss and an entire chapter is devoted to How to Kiss Girls with Different Sizes of Mouth – a useful manual for any man confronted with the voluminous, bee-stung lips of today’s collagen-implanted females.
“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”- Ingrid Bergman
If kissing was slow to catch on in evolutionary terms, scientists concede that it has become part of “natural” human behaviour today. In trials they have found that, when seeing a woman he is attracted to, a man’s saliva fills with the male hormone testosterone. Kissing passes some of those hormones on to the female, making her more in the mood for love.
According to another survey, people who kiss their partners goodbye when they leave for work in the morning tend to earn much higher salaries than those who don’t.
And the scientist who said not all of us kiss the right way? He was Professor Onur Gunturkun from Germany’s Ruhr University who discovered that two thirds of people tilt their heads to the right when kissing, which means that the other one third who tilt their heads to the left are not doing it the “right” way…
Sta-kiss-stics
At the Minnesota Renaissance Festival in 1990, Alfred Wolfram from New Brighton, kissed 8001 people in 8 hours – over sixteen people a minute.
Between 1st and 6th May 1978 Americans Bobbi Sherlock and Ray Blazina held a kiss-in that lasted for 130 hours and 2 minutes.
In 1896, John C. Rice and May Irwin became the first couple to be recorded kissing in a film called The Kiss.
The longest kiss in film history was between Jane Wyman and RayTooney in the 1941 film, You’re in the Army Now. The kiss lasted three-and-a-half minutes.
According to legend, any person who kisses the Blarney Stone at Cork’s 15th century Blarney Castle will be endowed with the gift of eloquence and persuasive flattery.
Chile holds the world record for the largest number of people kissing, set in 2004 in the capital of Santiago when 4,400 kissing couples locked lips en masse.
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How to Become a Great French Kisser- 5 Reasons That Some Kisses are Super
July 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment
What’s the difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.
Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as make out locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.
Great kissers don’t just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss – then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, and then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.
By: Sophy Achachi
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Frank Review of Kissing 101
July 19, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Kissing 101 is your complete guide to kissing tips and techniques. Kissing 101 a fantastic program on kissing written by Michelle Penney talks about the most pleasurable thing known to man (and to woman of course) kissing. For a woman especially kissing is the most intimate form of expression of love, more precious than sex. There are different techniques and types of kissing which are laid bare in Kissing 101. The book suits everyone be it a first time kisser, a person who is apprehensive about doing it right, a person who is actually doing it right-Kissing 101 has certain things which Michelle naughtily calls “insider secrets” which every lover can benefit from.
Usually books on kissing and making love are more preachy and beating around the bush(no pun intended!) then zeroing on to the point. Thankfully Kissing 101 does not head the vague but lip locks to the point. There is more substance here, more informative and practicably feasible content. For those who thinking kissing is not such a big deal; let me tell you that kissing is like a key which can open the treasure box. So there is no way you can undermine the most pleasurable act of love. And if you can be the best at kissing, there is nothing like it.
Kissing 101 gives you information on how to build the perfect setting for a kiss, how to mentally seduce or charm a girl/boy with your charisma. Kissing 101 shows that a pleasurable kiss can be enhanced by the right scenario, the right mood and the right chemistry that you create with a person. Additionally Kissing 101 has 80 full color illustrations which show how to kiss your girl step by step in the most appealing manner. For the price of $19.95, the book is quite a steal. In the rare case, which I doubt, the book does not live up to your expectations, you can return the book anytime within 56 days days from the time you buy the book and the money will be refunded, no questions asked.. In addition, there are four bonuses given absolutely free along with Kissing 101: how to overcome shyness while dating, how to be an extraordinarily good kisser, an audio course on how to be a better you and a personal email consultation where Michelle Penney will answer you on all your relationship and dating problesm.
So far, we talked about the good points of Kissing 101. But does kissing 101 suck at times? Is Kissing 101 bad? Are there any glitches? The only thing which is debatable about Kissing 101 is that it is a book meant to be just what it is: a book on kissing. Call it the kissing bible or the kissing encyclopedia or a kissing self-help, Kissing 101 stays within the limits of how to create the right chemistry with a person to kiss him/ her, how to sweep them off their feet with your kisses and how to turn on the sizzle with your lips. So if you are looking for a three course menu on sex, kissing 101 is not for you. But if you are looking for the key to the treasure, then kissing 101 is worth its weight in gold. Remember if you have the key, the treasure is yours!
By: Arunraj V.S.
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Valentine’s Day Kiss – Make it Unforgettable
July 17, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Valentine’s Day involves a lot of kissing, hugs, cuddling, and sex for many couples, but do you know how to kiss the right way? Kissing is like an art. You can get creative, seductive, romantic, and really show your partner how passionate you feel about them. Yes, we all know how to kiss, but we also have certain ways of kissing that will turn our partners on. Some may enjoy hugging their partner first holding them tightly before starting to kiss, some may start by caressing their partners face slowly then leading up to a kiss, while others may enjoy grabbing their partner out of the blue and planting a very sensual kiss on them. Kissing is very magical, especially on Valentine’s Day. Whether you are sharing your first kiss on Valentine’s Day or creating a kiss your partner will never forget make it passionate.
I love kissing my husband and finding ways to make the kiss more passionate. Be creative and think how you can make that Valentine’s Day kiss memorable. Just think creating pleasure for you and your partner is very romantic, delightful, and definitely pleasurable. What kind of kiss can I create with my partner? Wow, there are so many different kissing techniques like the Vacuum kiss, Butterfly kiss, Surprise kiss, Eskimo kiss, French kiss, Electric kiss, Nip kiss, Angel kiss, Tempting kiss, Finger kiss, Ice-cube in the mouth kiss, Fruity kiss, Lip sucking kiss, and the Reverse lip kiss. I am sure there are plenty other ways of kissing, but these are the only ones I known will get the hearts racing, blood flowing, and temperatures rising for Valentine’s Day or really any day for that matter.
How to prepare for that special kiss
First thing make sure your lips are not dry. Place a nice moisturizer on them to soften them up. You can use a flavored lip balm, lip-gloss, or even a nice lip conditioner that maybe has a taste of honey, vanilla, strawberry, chocolate, or even a tropical taste.
Next- Must set the mood or atmosphere for that special kiss. If you are inside you can set up candles, romantic music, sit by a fireplace if you have one, dim the lights, or throw rose petals all over the house so you can kiss throughout the whole house. If you are outside you can go to a park and sit on the swings, mountains, by a beach, your first place you met, in a pool, gazing up at the stars so on and so on. So many possibilities here.
OK now you are getting ready to create this kiss. When your partner is standing in front of you make sure you start out by tilting your head and staring directly into his/her eyes. Slowly place your one hand on his/her face and the other hand on the thigh. Try to pull your partner closer. While you are staring at your partner rub your cheek SLOWLY against theirs. Then start with your fingers gently caress the cheeks, forehead, ears, and then move them very SLOWLY around their lips. Do not kiss him/her yet let your partner get really hot so they can imagine what surprise will be next.
Now start kissing your partners ear, cheek, eye-lid, forehead, neck, and then slowly start kissing the outline of your partners’ lips working your way to plant that lip-sucking kiss or Angel kiss. Slightly and slowly bite on your partners bottom lip giving them a little tease and a slight stimulation. Once you have started kissing your partner try to move your body to a slight angel, this way you will have access of caressing your partners’ thigh or private areas. The inner thigh is a very sensual spot for many, especially if you start placing your lips there.
You must remember kissing is a great way of showing how much you love your partner and also could be a super sensual conversation. Think about when you start kissing each other you may hear ooh, ahh, oh yea, oh baby, ooh that’s nice, Yes, oh wow, ooh that’s the spot, or maybe you might hear hell ya from some. It just goes to show you that you put a lot emphasis on your kissing technique to let you know all is going right, which will lead to a beautiful night of Romance on Valentine’s Day.
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